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This week’s question caught my attention because it’s similar to a problem that I’ve fought with in my own life. While I don’t know of any great solutions, there are a few tricks that might help.
I’ve recently got in a little trouble. Now I need to come right home after school. I used to go to the library to study but now I can’t. The problem is that my house is always busy. I have 5 siblings. The house we live in isn’t all that big either. Every time I try to study I end up freaking out about the noise in the background. Is there any way to handle this?
I sympathize with this problem. After getting used to a silent study environment for so long, I often find even small background noises can become huge distractions. I imagine this is even worse for sounds as unpredictable as a ton of siblings. I can imagine being driven nuts by that myself.
It’s good that you figured out the library to solve your problem in the past. I don’t know the extent of your “trouble” but if politely asking to study at the library might work, that would be my first suggestion. I won’t waste any more time on that idea because I imagine you’ve already considered it.
If you can’t study in a quiet environment (like the library) and you can’t turn your environment into a quiet one (perhaps asking people to shut up, kindly of course,) then I’d consider one of two solutions.
First of all, experiment with the timing of your studying. This is the ideal solution. If you can wake up a couple hours earlier, or go to bed a couple hours later, than everyone else, then you can likely find a much quieter time to study. This will allow you to have your quiet time without sacrificing any study efficiency. If that isn’t possible then you’ll have to sacrifice some efficiency.
While I don’t normally recommend studying with headphones in, there are some exceptions to the rule. Ultimately, these strategies will likely harm your efficiency in studying but they will harm it less than the distraction of other people around you.
Try putting in some headphones and playing some white noise in the background. Turn the volume up to a level where it drowns out the people around you (assuming that volume isn’t too high.) The white noise can be anything from the faint hum of a radio without a station or things like the sounds of an ocean. As long as the sounds aren’t particularly interesting, they’re ideal for studying.
If the volume required to drown out the background noise is at an uncomfortably high level then consider listening to music in the background. This is likely hurt study efficiency worse than white noise but could be better than white noise at distracting you from background noises.
Be careful if you choose to implement these strategies and know that you’re likely studying in subpar conditions. As soon as you have an opportunity to avoid this problem in the first place, you should avoid it and take out the headphones. Headphones can make studying more enjoyable but more enjoyable generally means you’re less focused.
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Maybe She Won’t Notice
D’s eyes were watering at the score on the screen.
He was thinking, “Is this what I am now?”
The score was low. Lower than he liked to think about – and way lower than he used to get.
He was just hoping that his mother wouldn’t ask. He always hated telling her and it killed him worse to lie about it. It’s his mother… she wants what’s best for him and he knew he was screwing it up.
Staring at the score it hit him…
This has to change. On the next test, coming up in 3 weeks, he was going to make up for it. He was going to score high.
So… he studied. He studied for hours that night. He studied until his eyes were closing involuntarily.
The next day… he studied for hours.
And the day after that… he did it again.
But the day after that – his best friend was going through a bit of a crisis. So… he took the day off studying. I mean, no one needs to study hundreds of hours for a test, and he was doing well so far.
But the next day… he was exhausted. And, you know, exhausted studying doesn’t work. So he missed that day to.
The day after, he squeezed in some studying.
And… I think you know how this story goes…
The night before the test, he’s staring down at his study guide and cursing to himself.
It happened… again…
That night he buckled down and studied almost all night. (Until he virtually crashed at 3 am.) Every time he started dozing off earlier he’d get a snack or drink and keep on plugging. He worked. And he worked hard.
He even had moments where it felt like he was running better than ever. He felt like he was going to pull it off.
The test was the next afternoon.
And I’d like to say he knocked it out of the park and D saved himself with his last ditch effort to save his grade but…
I can’t say that.
Sure… D didn’t bomb completely.
But when he was staring down at his score… he was tearing up again. And he still was hoping that his mother wouldn’t ask him about it…
It’s not a number on a piece of paper.
I know… it can help reduce your stress to think that way, and there is a place for that.
But your future, your position in the world, is partially decided by these numbers on these papers. We all know it.
We all want to put ourselves in the best position possible – and these scores can do that for us.
And D knew it.
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